DxDp: We like transitions.

Eric and I are in a major transition. To be frank: we are pretty much newlyweds. It's been difficult to enjoy the "newness." The Sunday after we had what I've been calling our "Rain Blessing Ceremony," Eric's stepdad died. Were they close? I don't know. But all I knew what that Eric had to go home. Like, now-ish. Eric... in massive "transition," just finished his job at a specific store location and is just now learning his newly promoted position. He got to take his first work trip, ever just this past week. Then, he has a 1 week break before he starts his new job. Okay- long story short- Eric is in upstate new york seeing his mom, sister and niece whom he hasn't seen in 7 years. Oh, and his stepdad just died.

Me: I have to go to Guam only to get sick on the way back. My dad is in Philippines for 3 weeks, Christian burns out and I'm taking a cumulative of 2 work weeks off to help out. I... was saving my leave to study for my exam and our little honeymoon to Kauai. My new catch phrase that Eric is adapting to: "Ehhhhh fak."

We like change. We love change. But holy frack when you are IN it, you are IN IT. It's more than just change- its the time it takes to go through change.

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